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Coolrc69: hey lady thats down to earth...
| Seeking: | Female Age 45 to 80 | | Status: | 76 Single Straight Male | | Location: | | | Interest In: | Casual Dating | | Ethnicity: | Black/African descent | | Living: | Live by myself | | Eye Catcher: | Eyes | | | Height: | 5'11 inches | | Body: | Athletic and Toned | | Hair/Eyes: | No Answer, Brown | | Smoke: | No way | | Drink: | Only socially | | Exercise | 4 times a week | | Politics: | Liberal | | | Education: | Bachelors degree | | Religion: | Other non-Christian | | Income: | $45,001 to $65,000 | | Occupation: | Retired | | Offspring: | 2 children | | Personality: | No Answer | | Country: | United States | |
MY STORY
I am a 69yearold man still very active lost my wife of 39 years because of cancer. I think back when she was alive it been two years. This is probably the question every widower will hear some variation of at some point or another. Either that or “don’t you think it’s about time you started to date?” The point here is that everyone out there, especially those who don’t know what they are talking about, has an opinion on this. Ultimately, every widower is different and the only person whose opinion matters is their own. Some widower is comfortable dating as early as a month or two out, others wait years, and some never date again at all. This is a personal choice that each widow must make for themselves. I did sweat a little over starting to date after only a two years months. Not because I didn’t feel ready, but because I was sick with worry over what others might think. In the end, it was the right choice for me. A very wise widow once told me, “I fulfilled every marriage vow right until death do us part – can others say the same?” Whenever I got flack from outsiders, I would silently chant this to myself. Mostly to keep from yelling it at them.
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